There are plenty of things I do that I don’t want to admit to. Most of them involve my health. For instance: I listen to my acupuncturist more than I have ever listened to a general doctor. I’ll chalk it up to having a rapport with them but also, yikes.
I also have weird mysterious (even to me!) rules about what is and is not appropriate to wear or how to act on particular occasions. At a wake in August my partner asked me if I wanted ice cream on the way home (I did) but I also wanted to bite his head off. Ice cream is not appropriate wake talk.
It’s February and I have a part time job in the works but it is with a big organization and they are being very obtuse and it is very frustrating to me, as a person who needs every bit of information possible about everything.
It’s February aka the shortest month of the year that is (usually!) a perfect number of weeks which means if there’s a Friday the 13th in February there’s a Friday the 13th in March because they hit the same number weekdays which pleases me to no end.
It’s February and today it’s very cold but very recently it wasn’t and shortly it won’t be again and the days are getting longer so hold on and hang in there
The Good Place finale made me cry a lot* and if you have any thoughts on it I would love them to hear them!
A fave love song.
The internet is new but memes are old! As evidenced by this sculpture One Step Forward in the Rodin Museum. I took a picture of it and the description because wow.
Jo Firestone on Jimmy Fallon.
A comic about snakebites and travelling alone-ish.
This NPR story on an Anti-Semitic sculpture in a church in history does a good job weighing the complicated relationship between erasing a history of oppression versus erasing the harm an offensive work creates. How can we acknowledge marginalized histories without continuing their legacy?
A fave love poem.
I visited a friend last weekend and she introduced me to these amazing zit stickers that were much needed after an airplane ride! I hope not to need them but also will probably be ordering some.
This article on Margot Robbie got me watching the Hulu show Dollface which is my new favorite.
The story of the first black woman on the cover of Playboy.
Blue Valentine (2010), Little Women (2019) and 50/50 (2011) tears not to be confused with more lighthearted cries (when you spill sugar all over the counter refilling the sugar bowl after also already spilling and cleaning up after damp coffee grounds)
Articles:
The “exquisite garbage” of a internet-laden mind palace. Kobe Bryant’s complicated legacy. How do I balance the fear of the reality I live in and the hope I have for the future? a journalist and Crow tribal member reckons with the latest death in the long history of Missing and Murdered Indigenous Persons. A trip down ‘Divorce River.’ Meghan Daum’s political shift. The first woman in the journalist box at football games. Kara Walker’s unflinching artistic eye. Trump, Weinstein and the endurance of our patriarchy. Reporting back from TS Eliot’s love letters. An interview with Daniel Lavery. The new minimalism. Taylor Swift’s Miss Americana and secret disordered eating. Where do you find truth in historical fiction? Reckoning with David Foster Wallace’s abuse/manipulation/mistreatment of women (relatedly: infinite jerk). The accused who sue their alleged victims for defamation.
Food:
Cooking naked.
I’ve been really into putting breadcrumbs on pasta! Specifically, fettuccine or some other long noodle that is saucy from pasta water and some butter. I have of breadcrumbs from homemade bread I couldn’t finish eating which is extra nice but not necessary! Make some not tomato-y pasta, throw some lemon zest, arugula and breadcrumbs on it! Perfect!
I made these kimchi udon noodles for lunch and added thinly sliced radishes as a garnish and it was very good. This recipe definitely needs something like that otherwise it will feel a bit one-note and heavy.
The person behind the recipes on Bob’s Red Mill packaging.
Stay particular,
Margaret
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